This December will mark twenty-three years in parish ministry,
both lay ministry and ordained ministry, and I continue to find the same root
disease in the Church. People just don’t like Liturgy. It’s boring. It’s too
long. It’s old fashioned. It’s in a foreign language. I’ve heard them all! What
I also hear over and over again is complaints the Church isn’t doing enough to
retain members. There aren’t enough activities. There aren’t enough volunteers.
There are enough resources to pay the bills. I’ve heard those too!
Alone, these complaints are nothing more than excuses, but
combined they reveal the real disease. When you begin to remove the layers of these
excuses, you arrive at the true irritant. Most people want to be entertained in
life. Everything must be fun. Even education has become “fun” with computer
games replacing multiplication tables. Teachers, thinking they are helping
children learn, cry out, “Learning must be fun, or they will tune out!”
Everything is a game. One popular children’s program created the “Clean up”
song.... “Clean up, clean up, everybody clean up. Clean up, clean up, everybody
does their share.”
The problem with the ‘everything has to be fun’ model of
child rearing is that the fun eventually runs out. Eventually you just have to
be willing to clean your room. Eventually you just have to learn your math
tables. The same applies for the Church. Eventually you have to want to be in
the Church for Liturgy. You can’t pass out basketball trophies to forty
year-olds in an attempt to lure them back to Church. The best performing
students are the students who love to learn. So....the best performing
Christians are those who love Liturgy. Let me explain.
As Orthodox Christians our entire “Purpose Driven Life” (to
borrow a phrase from a popular Protestant pastor) is to become one with our
Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, what we call Theosis, or
Sanctification/Divination. The Sacraments, the Holy Scriptures, the writings of
the Holy Fathers and Mothers of the Church, prayers, fasting, almsgiving; are
all meant to shape our soul to become more like God. At the core of the entire
process is Holy Communion which takes place during the Divine Liturgy.
Consider the typical Church dinner-dance, the Church family
getting together for fellowship. It is supposed to be a joyous celebration, but
one group complains that the party has to end too early “just because” there is
Liturgy the next day. Another group complains the cocktail hour had to begin
too late because “it had to wait for Vespers” to finish. A third group arrives
late after eating dinner at a fancy restaurant, and leaves early to “go out to
the night club” for the rest of the evening. A fourth group, enters the Church
for Vespers, lights a candle and venerates the Holy Icons, and then after
Vespers makes their way to the Church hall for the dinner and a bit of dancing.
Which group do you think considers the Church dinner-dance a success? For three-fourths
of the Church the event was nothing more than an excuse to complain.
Now fast-forward twenty years. Which group do you think is
still involved in the Church? Correct! The group that attending Vespers was the
only group that was not continually searching for “more fun” and eventually
found it outside the Church. You see...the Church CAN NEVER compete with the
world in the business of fun. For the Church, Liturgy is our business. It is
the only thing we do “better” than the world, and it is the only ‘activity’
that will keep someone connect to the Church. Let’s face it...Liturgy is
EVERYTHING!
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